In today’s world, many people wonder whether or not athletes
should really be forced into being “role models.” The truth is, though, that
when kids play sports, even young kids, others are going to look up to them,
which means it’s important for athletes to set a good example for others.
Plus, is it really so bad to be a role model? Though kids
may feel a little pressure when they’re cast as role models, it’s a good kind
of pressure. It’s the kind of pressure that can help them to aim higher and be
better all around, which is really what sports is all about.
So, if you feel comfortable with the idea of your young hockey player being a role model, have a talk with him or her about the
importance of setting a good example. You may even want to share a few of these
helpful tips with your child.
Have High Expectations
First things first, talk to your child about the the
importance of having high expectations for him or herself. You can stress that
high expectations do not and should not equal “perfection” and that there’s no
such thing as a perfect person.
Explain to your child that, while he doesn’t have to be
perfect all the time, he should demand the very best from himself in terms of
behavior, attitude, and treatment of others. When you teach your child to have
and meet his or her own high expectations, you’ll be creating a natural role
model and a natural leader too.
Have the Right Friends
You should also explain to your child that the people he surrounds
himself with will go a long way in determining whether or not he will be a good
role model.
Tell your child to associate only with those who are
positive, who share the same values, and who also care about setting a good
example and being good role models. Not only will this advice help your child
to be someone others can look up to, but it will help keep him out of trouble
as well!
Value Respect
Finally, teach your child the importance of respect. This
includes respect for himself, respect for teammates, respect for coaches and
other game officials, and respect for all adults and all people in general.
Respect is perhaps the most important quality a role model
can have, and it’s a wonderful thing to teach your child.
If you can follow the advice given above and help your child
understand the responsibilities of being a young athlete, then you should help
him or her to become a great role model and a great person all around.
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