One of the most important things for young hockey players to
have is not something that happens on the ice. It’s something, instead, that
will impact every part of their lives. That “something” is confidence.
When young players are confident, they’ll play better on the
ice. Plus, they’ll feel better about themselves overall and will be more likely
to have successful, happy lives.
So, how can confidence be built? Fortunately, it can be
created and fostered in many ways.
Give Each Player a Chance to Succeed
One easy way to build confidence is to create opportunities
for players to succeed.
Coaches, for example, could help players to set reachable
goals. Then, when the child reaches them, he’ll feel successful and confident,
just like that.
Parents can also help kids set simple goals, like mastering
a new skill or showing good sportsmanship. Then, they can reward and praise
their child once the goal is met.
When you literally set kids up for success in this way,
their confidence will soar! Plus, they’ll learn about the importance of setting
and working towards goals.
Let Kids Make Their Own Choices
Most parents and coaches like to be in control. And, most of
the time, it’s important that they are.
Some of the time, however, adults should sit back and let
kids make their own choices, like whether or not to attend an “optional”
practice or what play to make in a game.
While relinquishing control can be hard, it gives kids a
chance to make their own moves. Some of these moves may lead to success, which
can build instant confidence. Others, however, might be mistakes, but they
present perfect learning opportunities and a chance to grow. Plus, when kids
make mistakes and are allowed to use them as a chance to better themselves,
they’ll learn confidence from that experience as well.
Building confidence can’t be done overnight. But, through
methods like these and through regular praise, encouragement, and constructive
criticism, it is possible to build confidence in a child that will last a
lifetime.
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