Why Fun Matters
A lot of hockey parents roll their eyes at the mention of
the word “fun.” To them, it means concentrating on what’s NOT important about
the sport.
Parents who could care less about fun tend to care more
about skill, performance, and, above all else, winning. And, while these things
are certainly important, are they really more important, at their core, than
having fun?
The major answer to this question is a big no. That’s
because fun isn’t just FUN. It’s about a whole lot more.
One thing to understand, to start, is that having fun
doesn’t necessarily mean that there’s a lack of hard work. Contrary to popular
belief, young players SHOULD have fun while they practice or play their sportof choice. In fact, studies show that they actually benefit more and learn more
when they have a good time in the process.
Something else to remember is that, for some players, hockey
is just about fun, and that’s okay. Sure, some players might take it more
seriously than others and have more talent than others, but that doesn’t mean
that everyone’s experience has to be so serious. Be respectful of the players
who are just having fun. And, if your child is one of the more serious ones,
allow for some fun along the way.
Finally, keep in mind that, if you want your child to become
a serious hockey player, make some room for fun along the way. Kids who aren’t
having fun and who feel forced into a sport are a lot more likely to reach
burnout levels and give up on sports entirely than kids who are having a good
time.
Fun may seem silly to you, especially if you have dreams of
your kid being the next Wayne Gretzky. With that said, though, fun is actually
more important than you might think, so ensure that your child athlete has
plenty of it.
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